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Beauty is in the Eye of the Beholder, but Sex?

Dear Cheryl,         I’m nearly at my wit’s end. I’ve struggled for four years with a husband who’s uninterested in sex. I feel very alone and depressed. We’ve ruled out medical issues, talked, gone to counseling over and over.

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Sex, Marriage, Is it Either Or?

          Dear Cheryl, My wife tells me I have an “abnormal” sex drive because I occasionally want to have sex. Plus, she nags and rips me apart constantly. She uses me as an emotional (and occasionally physical) punching bag. And

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Posted in Abuse, Children, Divorce, Marriage, Money, Sex

You’re Going to Need a Lawyer.

Dear Cheryl, I’m hounded by my husband to have “sex” with him, not to make love with him.   When we go for a night out something is always expected of me. And we never go out unless he has a

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He’d Rather Watch TV Than Have Sex

Dear Cheryl, My husband and I had an exciting, lust-filled courtship, but we’ve had an almost completely sexless marriage for over eight years and it’s killing me. We went to a sex therapist early in our marriage, but he didn’t

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Posted in Dating, Gays/Lesbians, Sex, Therapy