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This Isn’t Normal

Dear Cheryl, I got married a few months ago. It’s a second marriage for both of us. My husband and I dated for a year. Everything was wonderful, and I thought we had the best relationship ever. When we dated,

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Posted in Counseling, Emotional Indifference, Romance, Second Marriage

Credit Card Bills Usually Tell the Tale

            Dear Cheryl,               I’ve been married for over 30 years. Three years ago, I began to suspect that my husband was having an affair with a male co-worker who lived out of state. My husband was doing quite

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Posted in Cheating, Gays/Lesbians, Marriage, Snooping

He’s a Yellow-Bellied, Mealy-Mouthed, Chicken-Livered Girlie-Man

Dear Cheryl,         I have a computer. My husband knows nothing about computers and doesn’t want to learn. He doesn’t even have a screen name. But he wanted to communicate over the internet with a friend of his, so he

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Posted in Internet, Marriage, Pornograpy

You’re Going to Need a Lawyer.

Dear Cheryl, I’m hounded by my husband to have “sex” with him, not to make love with him.   When we go for a night out something is always expected of me. And we never go out unless he has a

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Posted in Abuse, Children, Marriage, Sex

No One Gets the Whole Package

Dear Cheryl, I’m a single, Jewish male about to turn 46. Growing up and in my 20′s and 30′s, most of my friends were Jewish. I dated Jewish women, but struggled to find a lasting connection. About five years ago,

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Posted in Commitment, Relationships