FORGET THE BUTTERFLIES!

Dear Cheryl, I am 36-years-old, with two kids, and I live in Soweto, South Africa. I’ve just started a relationship with Tom, a fabulous guy, but I refuse to admit that he’s fabulous. I compare him to all the guys

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Posted in Counseling, Relationships, Settling, Therapy

She Married a Weak, Pathetic, Insecure Turd!

    Dear Cheryl,           I’m a nice girl.  I’m loyal, faithful and understanding.  I don’t nag or complain.  When my husband wanted to play cards or paint ball or whatever, I told him to have fun.  Also, I cook. And very well. 

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Posted in Children, Divorce, Guilt

Why Does She Want to Change Him?

  Dear Cheryl,           I’ve been with my boyfriend for two years.  We’re both in our late thirties and very much in love.  He’s an extremely kind, wonderful, generous man, but I’ve been having a little nagging doubt in the back

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Posted in Change, Fantasy, Settling

This Isn’t Normal

Dear Cheryl, I got married a few months ago. It’s a second marriage for both of us. My husband and I dated for a year. Everything was wonderful, and I thought we had the best relationship ever. When we dated,

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Posted in Counseling, Emotional Indifference, Romance, Second Marriage

Beauty is in the Eye of the Beholder, but Sex?

Dear Cheryl,         I’m nearly at my wit’s end. I’ve struggled for four years with a husband who’s uninterested in sex. I feel very alone and depressed. We’ve ruled out medical issues, talked, gone to counseling over and over.

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Posted in Counseling, Sex